"And somehow you believe that life as Lupin is ideal?" he frowned. "I really figured you'd have gotten your eyes full of what it was like behind all the legend with all the time you've spent with Khaat. It isn't all that. You might have had a shit childhood, but that doesn't mean you need to have a shit life. You really don't have a bloody clue, do you?
"Look, you want to know about Robert? Robert is a kind, gentle man who has had to learn to act--to pretend to be a powerful, hard sonofab**** in order to protect himself and his family. He also has a temper. And the two people he cares more about than his own life are his wife and his daughter. And, yes, he would kill to protect them, and he has. And he'll do so again if he has to--without hesitation.
"Kate? She is a strong woman. Artistic, a homemaker, an animal lover. A woman with a huge heart. And she can be an amazing defender if she needs to be. She can handle a wand and do whatever it takes. They both feel massive amounts of guilt that they were not closer to Khaat when she was a child. They allowed Remus to parent her to the exlusion of anyone else in her life, so much so that when Remus died, Khaat's grief damned near killed her. She survived by the skin of her teeth. Khaat was 16 before she and her parents really got to know each other even though they lived in the same bloody house. From the time she was 8 til the time she was 16, the only two people that, really, she spent much of any time with were Brian and Remus. After that, she had to rebuild her life from the ground floor up.
"Less than a year ago, her husband left her on the night she almost died delivering her child. He couldn't man up, and he walked out and left Khaat and their baby destitute. Brian kept her alive that night and helped her rebuild her life from the ground up--again.
"And you know what? She takes one hell of a lot of crap because everything she does is measured by the bigger than life legacy that Remus left behind. That was not anything he ever wanted for her. Not ever. But its just the way things are. I'd advise you to stop locking yourself into that mindset that you're all alone and start to get used to having a family. Otherwise you're going to short yourself of being able to enjoy being with some really great people who know what its like to go through a lot of crap and survive. You just might find that its worth the risk."