"Dont get rattled with her," Brian said. "Neither of you get it, and she's not asking you to. She's doing her best to keep all her feelings to herself. The healers see miscarriages every day of mothers who are in their the first trimester. Khaat has dealt with young mothers who have either attempted some sort of self harm or completed it because of their grief. These young moms have done what you are doing--begun plans for a nursery and all the rest of it from the instant they knew they were pregnant. And its left her a bit scarred, I think. Its one of those things she doesn't talk about with anybody. Not even with me. I've just seen how much of that pain she absorbs and brings home with her when it happens. She is very, very sensitive. Steven, you know her. You know she doesn't just become cold to something without very good reason. Think. Besides that, do you not think she has her own feelings about having to raise Abbey without Rob? Or having to raise her granddaughter? My being there for her or not--she's not with the man she started this with, and it hurts. It just plain hurts. Rob will always be her one true love, and without him she feels empty, and raising Abbey without him hurts. So she is withdrawing a bit from this whole thing. Its not intentional except to keep from going on some tyrade about how much she believes, especially now, in people taking their time to keep from ending up with broken hearts."