Jim nodded " he was a waste of time and effort on her part as far as I am concerned, you did what your heart told you to" he smiled as he heard Brian say the only ones surprised was khaat and himself. " yes well some of us saw it coming along time ago " he said sipping his coffee " but in the end you both found out each other were meant to be , if she pulled threw that, all this skirmishing she does will only make her stronger, hum theres a saying, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger " he said " she is a strong woman Remus would not do what he did if she could not cope with it, your a very lucky man to have her love as you do, each one of us feel the same about our wives and husbands, each one fights our instinct to make them leave and stay safe, Margaret left because she wanted to not because I made her, our youngest was taken and Robert helped us find him , he was little more than a year old, but we both stood firm and we both still do, stand beside her not in front it only hurts you more than her" he tried and hoped he had put some fears to rest.