"I know what you mean. I wonder if my dad would have been such a git if my mom would have lived. I guess I'll never know. But I have learned one thing, though. I don't know if it will help you. Before my dad died, I thought everybody was as evil as he was. Then he died and I spent some time living by myself without any grownups. I thought, for awhile, I was better off. Don't tell any of the adults this, but I found out they were right and I was wrong. It was far better to have grownups in my life--decent ones--rather than to be on my own. At least not yet.
"If you have guardians who are good to you, you need to be happy. Being loved, well, its a really awesome thing. And even if do find out that my guardian is an idiot, well, I still have the neighbors. They're old enough to be my grandparents, but since I never knew mine, its all good with me. They own a big farm and they raise magical creatures on their farm. Its a great place. I have my own room there, even if I don't live there all the time. And they bought all my school clothes and supplies for me this year. They send me a box of all sorts of goodies every other week just because they care. And they write almost every day. And as I said, their daughter is the guardian of several kids. She's a really nice lady too.
"Aurora, blood family doesn't mean crap. Trust me. I know. I know it would be really nice to know more about your birth parents, but I'm sure someday that will come. Truthfully, the only family that matters is the family of the heart. And if your guardians love you, then hold onto them with all you've got. You're very lucky to have them. Enjoy every minute with them that you can get. And someday, when you get old enough, we can ask my neighbors for help. They both work at the ministry. They might be able to find out something about your biological parents. It might be worth a try."